පාඨක ලිපි
The cycle of life that we breathe in .
People always feel like they are stranded from themselves. Even though one might have all the luxurious and monetary items, they are alienated from the reality. Sometimes people feel like they are not being their own self in some situations. When you are uncomfortable with the situation, you want to escape. Escape where? Escaping your own space of making things much better. People use various type of escaping mechanisms. It depends on people. You can think of those methods because if I come up with those some social issues will be sprouting up on your head such as equality, gender discrimination, feminism, human rights and so on. Everybody says to face problems and don’t run away from them. Well, that is extremely conventional. There are minor as well as major issues in life. You can just easily get over things, as well as some concerns takes time for solving. Sometimes you have to fight them back only by yourself. Well, some say money is not life. Without money, can you afford food, shelter and also the commodities you want? Life is like flood and drought. When your life is flooding you with all the happy times, you will be definitely happy, but think about the aftermath of flood. You will have plenty of water, but it will destroy other things, and it will take much time to build up the mess. You will be happy, but you will gradually understand the nature of people when you are having hard times. The ones who were there for you at your best times will surely avoid you at your worst. That is the reason why we should consider our hard times as “good times”, because you will get this rare opportunity to identify honest and dearly people. In drought, you want to have a drop of water but all the other things. Life becomes empty sometimes if you consider and worry about the things which you don’t have. You must work hard to achieve the things which you don’t have in life. At the same time, being rich does not mean that you have to degrade others for their social status. I live we receive humiliation – honor, comfort – discomfort, profits – losses, happiness – sadness. This theory is common to everybody, even if you look at some high achievers. We cannot be content with life because we don’t get the place that we should get at some occasions. You have to keep doing what you like and just omit the gossips and sarcastic smirks of people. Always remember that you have to do what is positive for you as well as the society. Bad influences will corrupt the good minds as well. Give respect in order to give receive respect. People are not perfect, all make mistakes, and remember that you don’t have to explain about yourself to others just because others say bad about you.
Make your own personal space for you. Just know that you are special too. Most of all, the happiness which you are searching is always beside you. You will come to a moment where you realize everything was about yourself and not others.Smile always and value yourself and your interests.
-E.M.Dinithi Imantha Sathsarani-